PASSuk Parents Advice On Social Care.
Hello And A Warm Welcome.
First I'd like to give a warm welcome. Hello to all new visitors even if you are just passing through or if you are actively seeking advice, whether you are a parent, guardian, carer, grandparent, aunt or uncle, everyone is welcome in pass. I would just like to say there are no formalities in here, Im non-judgmental no matter what your situation may be.
Who We Are, And What We Do.
Hello and welcome to PASSuk parent's advice on social care. My name is Lady Kim Marie Skippings i am the founder, creator and author of PASS.
I created PASSuk with the intentions of helping families and supporting them with advise in all family court issues and social care issues, seperation issues and contact, from care protection plans to public law outlines all the way through the family court system. Me and my team can help with legal advice and support for all families, we will help any family that genuinely needs our support if we possibly can, after all us admin were all one of these families ourselves, we all had no where to turn and no one to talk to about our cases. some of us were the one lucky ones who won our cases and some of us are still fighting for our children's return, this is why i started up PASSuk to help others in the same situations. I can genuinely see that there really is very little help and support out there available for parents like myself, if any, and this makes our service so vital as there is a crucial need within the community for organisations like ours. PASS has now become mine and my team's passion to help and support others. we aim to build solid foundations for PASS and to be able to bring people together and also to raise awareness to fight for a change in the English legal system, and for the government to make it compulsory for children's services to support the families who need it most remember together we can make a difference.
So What Are The Real Statistics?
Here is a Summary Breakdown.
Here in the United Kingdom, the national statistics for 31st March 2017 - 31st of March 2018, stood at a total of 75,420 children becoming a looked after child and being removed from their families. This means 1 child is being taken in to care every 6 minutes. Goverment targets are set to remove well over 6,285 children every single month from their families and placing these children in either foster placements, children's homes or put up for adoption. 90% of the children that end up in the care system and placed in children's homes are usually subjected to neglect, physical harm, emotional harm and sexual abuse. Now bare in mind the UK population's net growth is 1 baby born every 1.5 minutes. If you multiply that it totals to 4 babies born every 6 minutes. Remember the local authorities are removing 1 child every 6 minutes, this means the government are removing 1 quarter (25%) of the United Kingdom's children, this means 25% of the population of children are in the care system. You may want to look at it in another way they are removing children at an alarming rate of 1 child out of every 4 children being forcibly removed and placed under the local authorities care becoming another looked after child statistic. If the United Kingdom's child population in March 2018 was 12 million children living in the UK then even I can work out on the statistics of 25% that is approximately 3 million children that have been forcibly removed from loving parents and are now living within the care system under the local authorities care as looked after children. So if there are 225 babies born every single day and you multiply that by 30 that works out to 6,750 babies born every month then the local authorities are removing 6,285 children each and every month, now take 18 years of childhood divide that in to 4 (the 25%) within the next 54 months (4.5 yrs) and if something doesn't change then we will continue at this alarming rate then nearly every single child in the United kingdom will no longer be living with there parent's but they will all become just another looked after child statistic.
165 voluntary run children's homes,
618 local authorities run children's homes,
1,749 privately run children's homes,
2,532 children's homes in the UK in total.
Now if you are going to listen to the rubbish that the government feed you which is that they reckon that there average is 4.5 beds per children's home, this would work out by 2,532 x 4.5 making a total of approximately 11,394 children living in children's homes somewhere in the UK. But ive worked with children in the system for many years and all the kids I've helped have told me that there are more like 10 bedrooms to every floor and there are usually at least 2 floors to every home which are 20 bedrooms per home, so If you base that on what we know then that totals out at a staggering 50,640 this is just for children's homes not secure units, foster placements, adopted, sgo, or deaths.
• 50% of prostitutes in this country have come from a childhood within the care system.
• 80% of homeless people in this country have come from a childhood within the care system.
• 80% of young adults that have come from the care system are unemployed within 2 years of leaving care.
• 13% of children that have come from the care system leave school with 5 good G.C.S.E grades, compared to the 58% of children brought up within their own families.
• 9% of young adults that have come from the care system go on to university, compared to the 47% of young adults brought up within their own families.
• 50% of all young offender inmates have come from a childhood within the care system.
• 26% of all prison inmates were in care as a child.
• 25% of all girls within the care system fall pregnant at least once before they leave the care system.
• 50% of all girls within the care system become single mother's themselves within 2 years of leaving the care system.
• 7% of all young adults under the age of 18 years old within the care system have criminal convictions. Compared with the 2% of all young adults under the age of 18 years old brought up within their own families.
My Personal Message to every single Parent .....
When a man-made system fails us look higher above the system, there is always a higher court, no-one is immune everyone is answerable to a higher authority! whether it be him upstairs, or us the public standing tall and strong together as a united nation, or by a just judge of a higher court to sit on his throne to hear our cries for change and our appeals.
Everytime the system attacks us it is running the risk of exposing the failures and promoting the corruption of what is really happening and going on behind closed doors and to the real truth of all the unjust wrongful abuse and harm they are causing our children, ultimately their actions are increasing our strength by numbers, because the more families they attack the more we keep multiplying and growing until there is no-one left to ignore what is happening right under our noses, waking more people up very single day to the cold hard facts of the cruelty and abuse their inflicting on our children, until our nation is wide awake and the real truth is out there, until there is no-one left who isn't affected by their actions. This corporation we call our government have unclean, blood stained hands. We the public pay their wages, we employ these fat cats to represent us the people's nation to act in our best interests, when the real truth is they are just cashing in on our children our own flesh and blood, they are sitting there getting rich at the expense of our children. We are not abusing or causing our children any harm, our children where happy everyday carefree children while they where in our care, then children service's gatecrash into our happy family homes and forcibly remove our children kicking and screaming then once our children are in the hands of children service's and placed within the care system the beaming smiles that was once on their innocent faces starts to fade until there is nothing left but emotionless expressions of an empty soul with hollow eyes that gaze right through you, the laughter that was once so obviously present on their precious faces are replaced with eyes of sadness looking at the floor to scared to look directly at anyone faces filled with anger, sorrow, emptiness, desperation, loss and confusion. We are not the one's causing the harm and abuse to our own children! Children service's are the guilty party here causing the emotional, sexual and physical harm they are destroying our children by placing them into a care system which systematically abuses and harms our children on a daily basis they are removing one child every four minutes every single day just to line their own pockets with what can only be described as nothing more than BLOOD MONEY !!!.
WE CAN EITHER CONTINUE IN IGNORANT SILENCE AND JUST LIVE LIFE BY DEFAULT OR WE CAN WAKE UP AND TAKE OUR COUNTRY BACK WHILE WE STILL HAVE THE CHANCE TO LIVE OUR LIVES BY THE GRAND DESIGN OF OUR OWN CHOICES AND TO BE THE ARCHITECT'S OF OUR OWN FUTURE, BECAUSE EVERYTHING WE DO NOW BECOMES HISTORY TOMORROW, BUT EVERYTHING WE FIGHT TO CHANGE NOW FROM THIS DAY FORWARD SET'S IN MOTION FOR TOMORROW AND BECOMES THE FUTURE GENERATIONS LEGACY! TO PASS DOWN TO OUR CHILDREN AND THEIR CHILDREN'S CHILDREN AND FOR FUTURE GENERATION'S TO COME !
The Sad Fact Of Our Nation.
Do you know why they are keep stealing our babies? Well let me tell you it is because there is absolutely no revenue money to be made by keeping families together or by supporting them.
Think about it logically for a second, think from outside of the box.
Now take onboard the fact that our government must keep the U.K.'s yearly outgoing costs and taxations to the maximum and as high as they possibly can when tallying the books. So each tax year when they borrow money against the yearly expenses of our nation for the next tax year.
They only make money per care order or per child under there care.
The fact that they leave the real genuine cases of child abuse and neglect alone and do not remove these broken children that desperately need it says a lot and this is because they lose money by paying out on expenses for child therapy and costs to call in outside agencies to work with families.
So for every ear tagged, easy pickings, unbroken child placed within the care system they get paid money for, this money is supposed to cover the child's expenses and costs while they are in the care system. If that child is not broken they can make a lot more money and it is a lot less paperwork to fill out. Remember it is a set amount per child not for the work they do or do not do.
Now let the logic kick in for a moment, think!!! the government are using our children as a financial commodity, to pay off our huge national debt to all the swiss banks we owe billions to.
Why you might ask? Because us families can't afford to kick up a stink. We can't afford to fight back like every other public sector can, all the other available resources the government can tap they have all previously tried. They have tried to raise taxes or to cut the wages of the police, teachers, fire bridgade, doctors and children's services and it has always failed miserably as is proved time and time again, they all go on strike under the national union. So that only leaves us the public sector, our families and our children that are left wide open for them to attack, as we are the easiest target for them. We are the only resources that they have left to tap in to and because we can't afford to fight back as it would cost us our children and the government know this only to well.
Now remember our children are happy, they feel the warmth of our unconditionally love, they are cared for and feel a sense of belonging and they know they are wanted with their families, until children's service's come along and snatch them by using false alligations and accusing the parent's of crimes they have not even committed yet.
By using our government's social care, children's services are abuse and neglecting our children !!! It is social care and only social care that inflict physical, sexual and emotional harm to our children !!! so many of our innocent babies and children suffering abuse in the care system and it always goes unnoticed or ignored they hush these children's direct disclosures up and brush it under the carpet and what's more is the abuse do not stop for these children of anything it just gets worse as a twisted kind of punishment for speaking out against them, whether it is once or in many many cases years of systematical physical and sexual abuse, they are imprisoned within the care system, a cold, unloving, strange and alien world, torn away from their families and left to cry themselves to sleep every single night for the rest of their childhood, left missing and wanting there mummies and daddies. Remember a lot of these children as young as ten years old that are placed within the care system attempt suicide and many succeed. Spending what should be their innocent childhood years wondering what they did so wrong to be taken away from there families, an emotional harm that will stay with them and effect them for the rest of there lives the mental abuse will scar these children's forever and the damage caused will carry on over in to there adult life and the suffering that children's service's cause these children is far worse than any parents could ever inflict on their children and why? for a few extra quid when tallying up their cooked books at the end of the tax year.
Its a shame they haven't realised it yet before it is to late that it is us the public and our children that are the U.K.'s future. Without us the government are nothing !!! the only thing they will ever achieve by using and abusing the nation's children as financial targets is to bring Great Britain to it's knees, distroying the next generation and the generations after that by creating dysfunctional broken future generations of children and adults who can not live with the harm they have suffered within the care system.
We the people pay our tax and the governments wages to a job for us the public by running our country for us as we vote and they took an oath to uphold the law and to abide by what we the people want for the greater good of our country and instead what do they do? it will be there actions that will destroy our country by tearing down the very foundations that makes Great Britain Great, they are damaging our families and breaking our children's spirits.
It's the actions of our very own government who we in truth should feel comfortable with to run our country, but instead we live in the dreaded fear.
I used to be proud to called myself British, now i hang my head in shame at the very thought and mear mention of the United Kingdom there is absolutely nothing united about our government.
When Did It All Start To Go Wrong.
Tony Blair changed targets in '2000' under labour policy to raise the number of children adopted by 50% from 2,700 up to 5,400 per year, which is 4 times higher than in France (which has a similar population as England and Wales). Tony Blair promised millions to the county councils that managed to achieve these targets. Some councils have had more than £2,000,000 (2 million pounds) given to them in rewards for successful adoptions. Tony Blair's intentions were all done for the right reason's. He was trying to get the difficult to place older children aimed at seven years old and above living in children's home's ect, and that have been passed from pillar to post and to get these children out of the care system and allocated to adoptive parent's to give these children the security of a permanent loving and stable family life and a home environment.
But the reform failed miserably, IT DO NOT WORK !!!!!
Instead children's service's and these social worker's began to see the promise and potential of these extra bonuses and cash incentive to earn easy money on top of their set wages, they began to see the benefits from earmarking babies and the cute toddlers under the age of 5 years old from good loving families as they are easily removed and already ready for adoption, rather than the troubled or "damaged" children and toddler's that already have or are showing signs of behavioural problems and that already have issue's that have come from an abusive or neglectful family backgrounds, instead of what the policy was originally set in place for.
Which inevitably ended up leaving the difficult and hard to place children still without a permanent, stable, secure or loving family home, as a result of this the number of children over the age of 7 years old within the care system being successfully adopted plummeted by half every single year since the policy was put into play in '2000' defeating what the law was originally designed for.
I strongly believe it has become a very lucrative money making business to tempting to turn down for the corrupt social worker.
In some cases babies are being selected even before they are born, where in the majority of case's the social worker see's an opportunity arise from a vulnerable young single mother as an easy target, babies are even being earmarked while they are still in there mother's womb. I read a news report not so long ago where one baby was forcibly removed from the mother in the labour ward by a social worker before the mother had even finished or produced the placenta!!!. Under the human rights act article 8 "right to a private and family life" "respect for one's established family life" "the right not to have one's home life interfered with" or one of my favourites under the human rights act conclude that the interference with family life was not justifiable under article 8 (2). Ultimately where is the help and support to the mother to enable her to prove she can meet the child's needs to be able to keep her child. Parents are being told they must lose their children because at some point in the future they might abuse or neglect them? "Risk of future emotional harm" as they are famously known for using. I know of social workers fabricating stories about innocent parent's, falsifying reports and legal documents simply to ensure these babies are put up for adoption! One report case I remember was of a mother's son being put up for adoption on the grounds that she might shout at him and upset him in the future!
Where's the British centuries old law "innocent till proven guilty beyond any reasonable doubt", or under the human rights act article 7 "no punishment without crime".
Now ask yourself this, if Children service's base cases on possible future probabilities and cases are put together on the version of a corrupt social worker how does any mother stand a chance at proving her innocence. What judge will believe a mother when aligations are made about her over a social worker (whom is supposed to be a representing body for the council), all on the beliefs that a mother might at some point in the future abuse or neglect or whatever excuse they deem fit. These families haven't committed any crime, they haven't even done anything wrong and haven't broken any laws YET!!!
So instead of certain social workers taking a mother's baby away, destroying and tearing apart her whole world and braking her Soul, why aren't the social services working together with the families to help them to work with the mother so she may keep her babies, so that any original concerns or aligations raised against her shouldn't ever happen again and everyone involved can say wholeheartedly they have no concerns for the health and wellbeing of the children involved. If a mother isn't offered the help that she needs to become a good enough or better parent how can she ever prove herself to them?
In Scotland there are no official targets or cash incentives and adoption rates are only a fraction of the number compared to England and Wales, even when allowing for a smaller population.
Here is your food for thought....
For every single child or baby successfully adopted the social worker in charge of the case receive huge amounts cash for EACH CHILD!!!!
Now ask yourself this! Why was David Cameron pushing for yet more adoptions with the promise of yet more cash bonuses when quite clearly Tony Blair had shown that the policy does not work! It went wrong! So why was David Cameron making a bigger mistake out of the mistakes originally made?
The aim of adoption is supposed to be about finding families for children that need homes.
The real truth is the adoption system is greatly flawed and has turned into a profit driven industry. Cash incentives, impossibly high targets and money bonuses are making adoption an exploited business, literally holding children as hostages.
From the moment a family first hits the children service's radar they are a potential target, I can confidently say that children service's have nearly always made a decision and a plan of action during their strategy meeting long before they have even met with your family.
They are targeting either couple they can divide or accuse, or the young and vunerable single mum's who have no family support network or means to financially challenge social care in the Family Court. Taking advantage of parents vulnerability by conquer and divide tactics.
They will not give parents the chance to prove willing or to prove that they are good parents. Forcing parent's to no alternative but to submit and relinquish their rights by being beaten down till they surrender.
They will try to lead you into a false sense of security even as far as trying to be your friend and to make you think everything if fine by feeding you a pack of lies and while your defenses are down they are looking at everything you do and taking notes on how they can twist everything that a parent does which is good and positive into making the parents look bad in a negative light trying to portray them as an abusive or neglectful parent. They will stall for time with everything.
They provide inaccurate information, they will lie and fabricate there reports, documents and legal statements. They will even go as low as to giving parents inaccurate dates and times for core group meetings, case conferences and court hearings, so that it can be used against the parents that they failed to turn up on time and that parents can't stick to important appointments.
If parents question or refuse to do anything there social worker wants then to do they will say you are not co-operating.
so it won't matter how hard you try to co-operate or attempt to prove your innocence, it will be twisted by your social worker to make you look bad, they will twist positives in to negatives and you will come across as an abusive unfit mother they will manipulate and use everything against you.
Parent's are judged merely on probability. They will nearly always use "risk of future emotional harm" which parents can't escape from.
EVERYTHING PARENTS SAY WILL BE USED AGAINST THEM!!!!
Newborn babies are being removed from there natural mother's and taken into the care system and all based on the hope they can make any flimsy excuse or alligation stick, these mother's are not even given the chance to prove that they are or can be good mother's, let alone the families and couple's that are initially a happy couple just going through everyday life with everyday issue's that are together that they forced into seperating by deception and by scaring these couples half to death with threatening them that if they do not seperate they will remove there children anyway and it is all because children's service's must attempt to get a successful adoption at the end of it.
There is no fair trial or jury in family court all evidence is presented to a solo judge or in front of a trio of magistrates who make their decisions based upon the balance of probability and not facts, social worker’s are renowned for submitting false report's as evidence full of lies to swing that balance in their favour by fabricating notes and twisting facts. Judges time and time again make the mistake of being falsely lead in to believing and backing up what they are being fed by social worker's and because of the courts cloak of secrecy this means that no-one will ever find out the truth and in turn there are no retributions for the social worker's who destroy the majority of innocent families lives.
The only other people more guarded than the family courts believe it or not are the departments of military intelligence.
However it is not only the secretive veil of the family courts which are based on the injustice of the children service's, but there is a far more worrying factor of the official figures.
Ask yourself why are the numbers of adoptions and protective cases still rising at an alarming rate?
Are there really more mother’s turning into potential child killer’s or abusers?
I THINK NOT! Maybe it is as easy and simple as the drive and satisfaction of reaching their annual quoter and the money the local authorities are being offered to reach unrealistic targets and the financial gain of bonus incentives once they have achieved their goal, maybe this is spurring and fuelling social worker's need and greed, the appraisal, money and the hope of job promotions that turns them in to corrupt conceited power hungry driving vermin. Now im not saying that all social worker's have turned bad because there are some absolutely brilliant social worker's out there but on the scale of balance in my personal view well over half of them have been corrupted by being pressurised to meet the government's unrealistic, unreachable target expectations and squeezed the life out of them by being overworked, under paid and under staffed, giving these social worker's no other option other than to ear tag as many babies and children under the age of 5 years old by attacking and failing these young vunerable mother's at all costs. Because I'm sure that nearly all new pre-qualified practicing social worker's go in to social worker for the right reasons of wanting to make a difference for the better of the children, it is the system that turns them in to vile robots this is why over half of all newly qualified social worker's do actually leave the profession within the first year or two, because it was not what they sign up for. Social workers are no longer working as representing bodies who are performing a duty to protect children and to keep families together by helping and supporting them, social worker's now work to achieve their own personal goals in order to gain recognition by a work promotion or to get a fat bonus pay check at the end of it, working under their own agenda to gain appraisal from high authority by using biased personal opinions and false alligations and lies by using any means possible to achieve this. With either each case reports suspiciously read word for word from case to case you can almost state as fact these reports have just been used over and over again by Microsoft word and copied and pasted for nearly every similar case alike, or each case contradicting the next.
Of course their are always the real and genuine cases where the parent's are in reality unfit parent's and there children are at risk of abuse and neglect, in these circumstances then it is children's service's duty and responsibility to protect such children from being subjected to this.
But the vast majority of children are taken by force against there parent's will more often than not. We are seeing time and time again mothers and families stating they are innocent of the crimes they are being accused of. Im also getting an alarming amount of cases where the social worker's in charge of cases are in fact not even fit to practice or hold a valid registration they are either still a trainee social worker's who are not yet qualified, or they have infact been struck of the register previously which should be enough to shake up the whole of our United Kingdom and to open our eyes and wake up and smell of coffee that something isnt right !!! whether unqualified or stuck off these social worker's are NOT FIT TO PRACTICE !!!! END OF !!!! yet they continue to be judge and jury over our families and children and they aren't registered let alone legally allowed to sign a legal report or document concerning our children.
My Message To All Protesters.
The People's Message.
TO EVERY SINGLE PERSON WHO WORKS UNDER OUR SO CALLED GOVERNMENT SHAME ON YOU, YOU ARE ALL ACCOUNTABLE !
Shame on you parliament, shame on your house of commons, shame on you to every minister of our cabinet, shame on you our government and the monarchy, how dare you use our children as financial commodities towards the nations annual tax revenues. You are all a national disgrace, you should be utterly disgusted and ashamed of yourselves, and your actions and behaviour towards our country, to the way you are successfully pulling down our great nation, if you insist on continuing this path i can promise and assure you of this, there will not be anything left of our great nation, nothing to hand down to our next generation to come or the generation's hereafter, just empty hollow shell's and nothing of our children spirits remaining, children will be left not knowing their heritage or where they come from or any knowledge or sense of belonging, just living their lives suffering from a childhood of abuse and neglect at the hands of our care system and living with a lifetime of childhood post traumatic stress syndrome. Many attempting and some succeeding in taking their own lives, all because they cannot bare to live another day with haunted childhood memories, nightmares/terrors and flashbacks of the abuse and harm they have suffered within the coldhearted care system.
Any professional or representing body caught using unlawful practices, committing fraud or deception to help forcibily remove our babies and children from any innocent parent's you should all be made and held accountable for your illegal crimes. Any representing body or professional who is caught colluding with this nation's broken and corrupt children services, who are knowingly direct or indirectly causing injury or even death by harming or abusing our children while you are being paid to do the job to protect the children and to support families, you should all be held accountable for your illegal crimes.
If you are reading this and you are not comfortable with your morals or acting in a way that goes against what you believe in or stand up for, if you are using the 'welfare rhetoric' to justify this kind of dispicable action of inhumanity, if you are keeping your head down, staying silent, keeping quite or turning a blind eye it shall be as if you are causing the abuse and harm to the children yourself aswell. I suggest those protecting others or silently witnessing abuse or harm from the side lines, this is now the time to wake up and find your voice, go out there pick up a phone and do the right thing ! make that WHISTLEBLOWING call right now ! do not hestitate or give it a second thought just do what is right, if not this very second then at the earliest, call whoever it is you can who will listen and act on the information you provide them with, who will help to protect the children of our nation. Maybe a local M.P, the nspcc, the cabinet minister for vunerable children and families, your Local director of children's services or the Police. I recommend that anyone keeping quite about any injustice and inhuman illegal crimes should stop and consider your predicament and to act accordingly to report the FACTS AND ONLY THE FACTS NOT ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS OR VIEWS IN THE COURT ROOM.
Remember the public are paying your wages and for you to live the life of fat cats, they are paying for you to eat, for your rent, for your nights out and for the clothes on your backs, they did not think they would be paying you to steal their children and to inflict harm and abuse on to them...
MAKE NO MISTAKE YOUR ACTIONS ARE UNLAWFUL! ANYONE PARTICIPAITING WITH THEM ARE ALSO COMMITTING A CRIME. YOU ARE NOW AT A CROSSROADS.. you need to think very carefully now. Due diligence is advised. You can and will be held accountable for your actions and for the actions of those people you are protecting and colluding with. We will be ensuring that each and every one of you is accountable before the court of law. Peace will be restored with law and order. NOTHING but the highest moral behaviour will be tolerated, we should NOT have to be telling you this!
THIS IS OUR COLLECTIVE BOUNDARY.